The G-Spot is a pleasure paradise for some but for most, it 
is as elusive as Big Foot. Many wonder, "Does it even exist?", "Do I
even have one?". I promise you ladies, it does exist and you definitely do
have one of your very own.

Fact: The G-Spot is named for Dr. Grafenberg, the lucky man who 'discovered' it.

Do not feel alone in your quest for your G-Spot, women of all ages are 
still searching. Whether you have a partner or are happily single, finding 
your G-Spot can be an earth-shattering experience. Do not feel dissuaded 
if you don't find it on your first try, this is a process that should be slowly
enjoyed and experienced. Take your time in following these How To steps 
and enjoy the journey. Good Luck and please let me know if this has helped 
you by e-mailing me at tara@partiesbytara.net .

Step 1: Relax. This is not an errand for you to do between dinner and dishes.
Pick a time when you will be able to concentrate on the task at hand.

Step 2: Undress and go to the bathroom (clearing your bladder first may help).
Wash your hands thoroughly and trim your fingernails.

Step 3: Now, lie down and relax. Begin pleasuring yourself either by fantasizing 
or using a vibrator or your own fingers ~ Whatever turns you on will work.

Step 4: Once you are thoroughly aroused, you should be lying on your back.
Place a pillow under your rear end and bend your legs at the knees (the 
stirrup position). I find that a little 'tilt' helps to access the G-Spot area.

Step 5: Put some lubricant on the fingers of your 'masturbating' hand.

Step 6: Slowly insert your middle finger into your vagina.

Step 7: There may be some body maneuvering involved here, but you will want
to insert your finger as far in as possible. Begin feeling around the 'front' 
wall of your vagina (think of it as pushing up to your belly button), about 2" in.

Step 8: You will feel a place that feels slightly different, about the size of a 
quarter. When you find that place, begin to gently rub in soft circles.

Step 9: Do not be alarmed if you feel a 'strange' sensation like the need to 
urinate. Your G-spot is directly connected to your urethra which is why you 
cleared your bladder before we started. You are not going to pee!

Step 10: If direct stimulation is too much, you may want to try a vibrator or a 
dildo. For some, direct stimulation is too intense and sometimes even painful.
You should try a toy that is designed to stimulate this spot: G-Spot Toys

Step 11: Don't be discouraged if you don't feel anything 'good' right off the bat.
Like I said before, this takes time. Massage the area, try a vibrator and if it 
doesn't 'happen' today, try again in a few days. Regardless of the results, you 
will know exactly where your G-Spot is for future attempts at orgasm.

Step 12: If you have been enjoying the G-Spot stimulation, you can also enjoy
clitoral stimulation at the same time. Soon, you will feel a build up of incredible 
'pleasure waves' coursing through you. Just let it go....and go.....and go!

Fact: Female Ejaculation can/does occur and is completely natural.